Not many people like to talk about what they really want in a dating experience. This topic can make people feel uneasy and uncomfortable, but the fact of the matter is that people do think about it, and they have wants and needs and fetishes. The easiest way to find out if there are others out there who want the same is to use an app. But that app needs to be safe and secure and it needs to protect you, so you are not exposed to unwanted advances.
In Kinkdr, you create a profile of yourself, but no one can see it. No one until you allow for others to see it. That is where the protection comes in. Once you have your profile put up, you can explore the user community for others who share what you enjoy, or you can even experiment and check out something new. There are no restrictions and no rules. The only rule is that you can only IM with others once a mutual agreement to interact has been established.
When you find a profile you like, you can give it a star, you can love it and from here you can also initiate private messaging.
Once you’ve got the communication lines open, you can share just about anything you want, and it all stays between your “approved” contacts. Beyond this, you can check out kinky stories posted by other users. These are all out for anyone to enjoy. The app also allows users to set up and advertise gatherings and meetups, for anyone who is interested. I was not quite sure if there was a way to do this with a small defined group, but I am sure there is a way to do it.
The app is easy to get around in and does not take more information than it absolutely necessary to get you started interacting with the community. You can engage with as many or as little of the community as you wish. It’s all based on your interests and your desires.
The app ensures all of your data is kept safe and secure, so you have control over what is shared by limiting you can see your profile. This is an important feature for anyone who puts their extremely intimate and private secrets onto a profile require.
I would like to see better a color scheme, as black with red seems to attract unwanted attention from wandering eyes. You might be in the app, doing your thing, and some prying eyes may get in on the action because of the notorious colors they see on your phone screen.
Kinkdr is a cool app for anyone looking to BDSM dating and fulfilling their fetishes.